@aaronpk I don't have a web host per se, just a linode, which doesn't offer that. but I see they offer https://mailinabox.email/ so maybe I'll just try that, though it is overkill
ah yeah. I use DreamHost for my forwarding. I decided to get out of the email deliverability business myself once it started getting too hard to keep up on avoiding getting caught in spam filters. It's just a game I don't want to play anymore, happy to have people with a full time staff deal with that now.